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Ind

perfect bait, imho. (y).

Sashida

There is an awful lot of this on Love Shack lately. Guys have to develop some discipline of the mind and the feelings and if you're caught up in dwelling on your partner's past--some have even said they envision particular sex acts with other players when they are having sex and it disgusts them. To me this is a sign of "compulsive" pattern thinking that is probably a problem in other ways in a person's life. I'm big on seeing a psychiatrist, talking about it and experimenting with modern SSRI medication for a while to see if you can figure yourself out. I never had that particular compulsion but my use of SSRIs for depression gave me the presence of mind to DECIDE my feelings or decide to defer my feelings until I rationed out what I should be feeling. If you are so used to having your feelings run your life, it's not unusual to "blame" something because you're groping for reasons why you're having a recurrence of an intense and uncomfortable feeling. With the right correction to your brain chemistry you, like me, may achieve that all-important second to realize that your faced with a feelings issue and can choose to either entertain it or steer clear of it. You simply can't change anyone else's past to make it what you'd prefer to either say good bye or consider getting some modern help for a while to try to fix your compulsive over-reaction and fixations.

Montrey

I dont buy that he was a virgin.

Civies

He answered your school/work related email promptly. I would do the same thing for anyone without a second thought as to "signals being given".

Decima

As for "pain and growing" True, nothing can grow without a little rain. But I ask you, what or where is it we which to grow into? - John.

Graph

Your feelings are very valid, whether your family sees that or not.

Danilo

Finding useful information for yourself is not going to keep him from taking his frustrations out on you when he's depressed. You are not obligated to help him when he's depressed neither is it a good idea to continue seeing somebody who is reluctant to get treatment. He would do great on a regular regimen of Paxil, Zoloft or whatever the doctor eventually put him on. Encourage him to report this to his military doctors. If he gets discharged, he would be eligible for miltary disability payments, which are pretty generous. Then he could go into the civilian world, take his medication without worry, and get a nice job. It is not in your best interested to continue seeing somebody who will not get the help he requires. If you stay with this man, you are headed for a lifetime of misery with the ups and downs you will face. If you are intent on making major sacrifices of your own happiness to hang around this dude, go to: www.google.com and enter "depression" (with the quotes) into the search field. There are hundreds of sites that will give you insight into depression, its treatment, and what you can do to understand and support a person close to you who suffers from depression. Remember, though, that most of those sites that give you information on how to suppport the person presuppose that the person is receiving adequate treatment. Taking a few samples of Paxil is hardly a treatment. It's very possible your friend could need medication for a very long time. He should get out of the military if that's what it takes for him to achieve happiness.

Drescher

I mean how many young men who have already had sex before, decide to go celibate for THAT LONG. please don't be mad for what I'm suggesting. good luck.

Darned

Much to my surprise, he called me the next day (Monday) and asked me to go have dinner and see a movie with him. I declined simply because I felt like continuing to date this guy would be a complete waste of time. Later that night, I spoke with a male friend of mine who told me that I was too hard on him and that I should give him another shot. After I got off the phone with my friend, Mike called me back and asked if I would consider seeing him on Tuesday and I agreed.

Editing

Really don't care.They're all hot as hell,young,gorgeous,amazing bodies & legs and in 1 piece swimwear.Works for me (y).

Frederik

There was a time when it only made sense to date one person at a time (IRL)and give the person an honest chance before moving on to the next. With online dating you're lucky if you can get someone to focus on you for five seconds before moving on to someone else.

Romanesque

Hello, I am a hard working guy with a genuine sense of humor and I do have the sensitivity and compassion that it takes to be in a relationship :) Looking for someone that is also caring and.

Axone

Exactly!!! I could not agree more. I have had people (and fellow LS's) tell me to go out and find somone, or someone may come along soon, but If I have not moved on emotionally I am creating yet another problem (vicious cycle). I think it's common for people to jump from one R to another, and I would almost bet cheating and affairs would be cut down if people only took the time to heal and get to know themselves and dealt with past issues.

Ulan

Than I just had to play with these amazing firm boobs that felt great, unfortunately she was a bit sensitive that day but still outstanding fun.

Vortical

A strong woman loves, forgives,walks away, lets go,tries again,and peserves no matter what life throws at her. A woman of fait.

Schurig

Wow, thanks for the replies. I just registered on this site today. I'm amazed at the great feedback! Thanks the great advice!